Fantasy

I know most of us who look at these things are adults with open minds. I also am happy to say that even those who are Christian think this way. I heard on a talk show one time a lady call in upset because her husband had a fantasy that did not involve her. She was worried that it meant he would likely cheat on her at some point in the furture. The host first asked the lady if she had ever had a fantasy that did not involve her husband. The lady shocked and almost horrified said of course not. The host then said "what a waste of a good fantasy." The lady said "What!!!"

She could not understand why the host was so laid back about the husband having "impure thoughts about another woman". The host explained that fantasizing about someone or thing else is not bad. That means you still have romantic thoughts and feelings. Now if after having this fantasy you would like to share it with your spouse that is great. However you spouse is also allowed to have fantasies and share them with you. Who knows it may lead to more interesting intimate moments.

I have to say that sharing fantasies with my husband has enhanced our sexual relationship so much. I have to say that no matter what fantasy I have I want to share it with him before I ever try to do anything about having the fantasy acted out. I share everything with him. I take that back I do not talk to him about very thing I am thinking or about writing this blog. I do talk to him about every thing that is important though. We call each other during the day a lot of times just to hear the others voice. We have been married for about 6 years now, and have a 4 year old daughter.

So it can not be said we are still in the honey moon stage of our relationship. He and I hardly do anything outside the house, and when we are out of the house it is very rarely together. However, when I do have a fantasy thought about some buff, hard bodied, guy shopping in Wal-Mart. I can't wait to get home and seduce my husband so that he can benefit from the arousal I felt over the fantasy. Also I want to see if he will do some of the things in the fantasy. Why shouldn't my husband, who slays dragons for me every day, reap the benefit of my sexual arousal. He works hard for me and I should show him my appreciation in one of the many ways I have. This way I get sexual satisfaction. My husband gets tension relief, as do I. We also share a wonderful moment of bonding together. My husband is a very talented lover and I have no want for quality in my sex life. However I could use a bit more quantity. May be I should try harder to win the lottery so that we can spend more time together. We will have time. I guess my pressure is that I have one more year until I am 30 and my chances of having another baby go down hill fast. I would like to have several more children, but we just don't seem to have enough time and energy together. We found a new position again. It was one that we had done before KK was born. Well, after she was born we couldn't do a lot of the positions we had use to do. This particular position was put on the don't list soon after we found out I was pregnant. I am very flexible and can have my knees bent back to my arm pits. I then help support my husband by putting the palms of my hands just under his pectoral muscle and cupping it. I lock my elbows and hubby stretches out his legs. It is a very nice position for both of us but was not one for being pregnant, due to the folding position. So I call it a new position. It is one not used in over 4 years. Well, I have blabbed on and on. Now I am going to go and try to have middle of the night sex with my husband.