Life's Sexual Journey

My thoughts and feeling on my sexual journey through life. I have learned new things about myself and my sexuality. This is where I explore them further. Please feel free to make comments and ask questions.

Monday, February 14, 2005

masturbation

Now that title should say it all right??!! We all do it. Some of us learned about it in childhood. Self discovery is always fun. There are some that didn't know about it until they were in their late teens early 20's. Now how many of us would be shocked to learn that women use to make an appointment with their doctor to use a vibrator. Yes, it was a medical practice for many years. Now think about that for a minute really think about that. Use your own mother as an example of that. Ok her is the senerio... Your mom is dialing her doctor's phone number. She is setting up an appointment to have another man give her an orgasm. Insurance companies use to pay for this kind of thing. I think they catagorized them as "stress relief" appointments.

The funny thing is it was against the law to sell vibrators to private citizens. It was considered preverse. What is preverse is making a child so self conscious about her sexuality, not to mention her body that when she is married she still thinks giving her husband a blow job is pornographic. How can that be pornographic? It is between husband and wife right. I still have times when I think I am doing something "dirty" hee hee (blush).

Growing up I would get punished for masturbating. Now my daughter has through self-discovery figured out that masturbation feels good. Now I have finally through several therapists figured out that masturbation is a normal thing. I am sure to tell my daughter that I am not upset she is do it, just that it is something to be done in her room alone. She has figured out that many different objects can help in the rubbing of her vaginal area. What is bad is when she is outside and masturbating. I live in what is know as the Bible Belt of Texas. I also live in a small very religious town. The kind where there are more chruches than street signs. You have seen those kinds of towns. I swear in every building that does not have a store in it, or that a store has just vacated, becomes a church. So having my 4 year old masturbate out in the front yard could at the least get me investigated by CPS, and at worst get me arrested. Ain't that a bitch

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