having a second partner

I have a boyfriend, and a women with whom I would like to try and become closer to, but I have not found someone whom we both would like. It seems almost funny. I really think that if he wanted to have a girlfriend of his own that would be fine. However he does not feel like doing that. I can understand since he is the one making all the money for the house hold. He works so hard all the time. Even when he gets home from work in the afternoon, he takes a short nap and goes out to work some more in his shop. Sometimes I just try and get him to take some time off. Today however he took most of the day off. He and I both slept for most of the day. He stayed in bed until about 10, and went back to sleep around 10 and slept until 2. He then went back to sleep and had a nap until around 3. So we both slept for most of the day, but right now I just want to go and crawl in bed. Anyway back to the original subject. I have two different people that I would like to add to my family unit. He however has not found anyone that he would like to bring in for himself. He really doesn't have the energy to spare for a second partner. I however would love to have sex 3 to 4 times a week. He would just pass out at the thought of finding the time and energy for that. Oh well, that is why I have other out lets for my sexual erges. There is chat, or blog, or talking with my boyfriend. There is always toys... however I am getting to need some new ones. I can't wait to use those toys with my boyfriend, or girlfriend for that matter. Oh well, those things will have to wait until the appropriate time and place. Well, Goodnight all and don't have too much fun.